2. We Did Swear in Wealth and in Brokeness
This could be a potential problem when starting a marriage if not communicated about early on. Money is serious business and has broken up and destroyed many, many healthy relationships. Fortunately, things worked out for the OP, and she was confident they made the right decision to have separate accounts throughout their marriage.

They probably had to work on that budgeting for a while, though; I wouldn’t trust either with money, and that feeling likely was a mutual thought between them for a time. Better to learn it on a vacation than on a mortgage, am I right?